What is Healthy Selfishness in Sex?

TLDR: If you want a satisfying sex life, you need to find the right balance between giving and taking.

"Healthy selfishness" may sound like an oxymoron, but it's actually a great way to make sure your sex life is fulfilling for you and your partner(s).

The best sexual partners know how to give pleasure AND enjoy their own pleasure. If you're lacking assertiveness or the ability to speak up for what you desire, then you may need a little more selfishness in your sexuality.

Watch the video to understand the spectrum of selfish desire, and how to find a healthy balance between giving and taking in sex. This is an important skill whether you're dating or married.

I hope you enjoy! Remember to like this video and leave comments!

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Jami Lynn

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DISCLAIMER: This content is not therapy, nor is it a substitute for therapy. If something in this video is activating, illuminating, or intriguing to you - please seek a trained professional to explore the topic with.